Life has complicated me...

Life is as simple or as complicated as you want it to be and there is no one who can make that decision for you, but you…

 

I see people who have everything but are yet sad; and I see people who have nothing but are still content in its bliss. Well I guess the difference is whether the glass is half full or half empty here, and most people are still searching for their glass…

 

I have lost sleep over trivial issues and unwanted relationships that have made me doubt the person I am; but there came a time when all this chaos made sense and I started seeing life for what it was…

 

I may not be the best of role models but I have learnt a thing or two in life and hopefully putting it out here may help you build on your own perspective too…

10 things that have changed my world:

 

1. We spend too much time trying to earn a living that we forget to live a life. Even God rested on the 7th day so remember that you are only human…

2. Love unconditionally and show it in action. Let your actions speak louder than words for a hug can convey more than what mere words can flatter…

 

3. Your partners cannot feel the same way about you all the time and there will be times where they don’t feel like expressing their love for you. This does not mean that they have stopped loving you, it just means that they are having an off day… be patient at the least…

 

4. Do something for someone because you feel like it and not because they will return the favour someday. The day you stop keeping score you have already won the game…

 

5. Marry, commit, work, build relationships, communicate, express, Love, because you “want” to and not because to “need” to. The day you understand the difference between the two you will know what true happiness is…

 

6. Smile, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. There is enough hurt in the world and crying is not going to solve your problems. Your smile is infectious so the least we can do is spread the cheer, because what good is a life that cannot give…

7. Work at a place that respects you and not one that pays you to survive. You were born and raised with dignity and no one has the right to take that away from you. We all work for an organisation and are paid for it, this does not give anyone the right to put you down when things are not going as planned… When things are not going your way, take a pause, regroup your thoughts, settle your emotions and commit to doing better. Sooner than later you will see the positive change…

 

8. Just wanting good things to happen to you is not enough because you need to work towards them. If you find yourself stuck in a series of misfortunes then it’s time to take control of your life and take the first step towards realising your dreams…

 

9. Bad times are not here to stay but tough people do. Your reality of today does not have to be your reality of tomorrow, so take the hits and keep moving forward, for this too shall pass…

 

10. Say a thank you to God for all what you have, what you don’t have and what he has in store for you. The biggest religion today is that of humanity so be a good human being and have faith that you do not need to ask God for anything, because he is already answering your prayers even before you asked for them…

 

I hope this note helps you find your own perspective in life; if it did not, then I at least hope it was a good read.

 

God bless 🙂

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